Strengthening Family Ties Strengthening Family Ties
My youngest son who is a special needs child has been able to chant Dorje Shugden's mantra on his own accord. Since then,... Strengthening Family Ties

Dorje Shugden has helped my family and I to accept and face challenges or obstacles that arise.  By practising Dorje Shugden, I have realised that when we do his practice diligently, in the beginning our bad karma will arise in that we will have to face a lot of challenges, obstacles and unfavourable experiences in worldly matters, like relationships and financials. Having faced such experiences, my family is now much more harmonious and at peace.

When we started practising and having faith in Dorje Shugden, many afflictions and negative situations arose because of our own self-created negative karma. As we experienced these negative karmas, eventually we had less obstacles and the ride was less bumpy.

Dorje Shugden has also helped me to create the conditions whereby I am now able to work for Dharma. I have always wanted to be a full-time staff at Kechara, but in the earlier years I had a lot of resistance, and my husband was not supportive of the idea since he wanted me to take care of the family full time. As for myself, I did not have the confidence that I would be able to work for Dharma full time and also manage the family and my children. I had a lot of fear and doubts too. As I practised, learned and began to have a better understanding of Dorje Shugden’s practice, I realised the importance of having a Dharma Protector – it helps to clear the obstacles and create the conditions for us to do Dharma work if our motivation is sincere.

When I am faced with challenges in my relationship with my husband, I would usually become very angry, frustrated and unhappy. As I continued to practise Dorje Shugden, I am now able to dispel these emotions, and have become much calmer and less emotional with the situation. As my condition changed, I realised the condition of my family also changed to become more harmonious and with less conflict. In addition, I am also a much calmer and happier person.

Dorje Shugden is very swift in his actions. There was a time when I requested assistance from Dorje Shugden to help my husband who was experiencing disturbances from a spirit who had been following him. These disturbances had made my husband an angrier, blameful as well as revengeful person and caused him to be influenced by bad company. This caused disharmony and friction in our relationship and within the family. After receiving blessings and guidance from Dorje Shugden, he is now a calmer person.

At his workplace, my husband was also facing a lot of challenges from his colleagues and superiors. Upon practising Dorje Shugden, the outcome of his work and projects have since been much smoother. When his organisation was going through a restructuring, his job position was at risk but somehow fortunately, he received resources and help from the head of another department who recognised his capability and ability which has helped him to retain his job.

My youngest son who is a special needs child has also benefitted in that he is able to chant Dorje Shugden’s mantra on his own accord and thus, has become a calmer and more attentive boy.

Doreen Teoh

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  • Sofi

    Posted on June 16, 2016 #1 Author

    Thanks Doreen for sharing your story and your family’s journey with the Protector Dorje Shugden. It is amazing the benefits that Lord Dorje Shugden brings when we believe and trust in him. There are so many testimonials of his sometimes subtle and sometimes wrathful assistance to help us overcome our problems which arise due to our karma. He helps to create conditions that helps us on path towards enlightenment and if we are sincere in wanting to be in dharma to benefit others, then all the more he will lead us there. May you and your family always be blessed by this World Peace Protector!

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  • Wah Ying

    Posted on June 24, 2016 #2 Author

    Thanks for sharing your story from your heart on how Dorje Shugden has helped you. We all wish to have wealthy life, earning lots of money, but when we do not enjoy good relationship with our partner, our family members or friends, we would be less happy. Dorje Shugden as an enlightened being, he can helps many, bringing benefits to many in many aspects of life – the family journey and story shared here is another testimonial.

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  • Helena

    Posted on July 18, 2016 #3 Author

    Thank you Doreen for sharing the amazing story of your family. With the help of Dorje Shugden it transform you into a calmer person so that you can have a clear mind to solves and overcome the family problems. And of course self transformation is the most benefit to you. May you and your family always blessed by Dorje Shugden,

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  • Stella Cheang

    Posted on October 9, 2016 #4 Author

    It is heartwarming to read about the benefit of relying on Dorje Shugden that not only clear our outer obstacles but also cutting our ignorance and propel us on our spiritual path. I rejoice for you, Doreen, for having a better family bond after practicing Dorje Shugden. I hope many people will read this and start practicing so that they too can benefit the same. Thank you for sharing this with us.

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  • Alice Tay

    Posted on October 18, 2016 #5 Author

    When we have strong faith in a spiritual guide and Dorje Shugden, we will have the blessing from the guru and Dorje Shugden. Therefore our obstacles will be cleared and it also creates a conducive environment for us to learn and practice dharma.
    Thank you Doreen for this wonderful sharing. May you and your family always be blessed and protected by Dorje Shugden.

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    • Velvet

      Posted on March 9, 2017 #6 Author

      I've seen Indian ladies around Melbourne wearing beautiful sarees, but never thought about the work that went into making them. I guess I assumed that they were done by machine, but after reading your blog I can now aprapciete all the work that goes into the exquisite stitching. You are so skilled, Lakshmi!

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